How Getting Dumped Changed My Life Forever
Hi, I’m Tyler…
About 5 years ago I went through the most humiliating even of my life. It started when my girlfriend of 4 years went away to live on the other side of the world. This lead to a long distance relationship of 1.5 years that was pretty much torture… but we had great plans of moving in together when she returned and living happily ever after.
When she returned, I should have known from the look on face that it was over. But I clung on like a love sick puppy for 2 months until she finally, officially dumped me. I say officially because during this time I wasn’t even allowed to kiss her… the torture continued.
Being forced to date for the first time (my two previous girlfriends had been friends) I was a little at a loss as how to go about it. So I turned to the Internet for help. Well what I stumbled upon was amazing!
Learning What Really Created Attraction
Instead of just generic dating advice I came upon this whole community dedicated to dating success with women. The stuff they’d figured out was amazing and when I started learning it I realized it was the opposite of what most guys did. So I started to put it into action in my life.
I started to use a few of the things I learned while talking to my ex-girlfriend just as an experiment. I still remember the phone conversation when she said “… like… umm… if you wanted… like… you could come down for my flat warming… and you… umm… could like… stay here if you wanted… umm…”
This stuff was obviously magic and I was sold. After all I had now been waiting 2 years to get this girl into bed again damnit! What followed was a fun few months of “visits” backwards and forwards until…
I Get My Ass Handed To Me Again
I’m at her birthday party… watching her flirt with some other guy… while I sit there and watch… trying to put on a brave face. That night was one of the lowest points in my life. Lying there… unable to sleep… feeling like a loser on the freezing floor of my friends flat.
Obviously I hadn’t quite mastered all this female attraction stuff yet but from that came a life changing decision. I now look back and am thankful for the experience because it made me into the man I am today.
So what happened next?
The University Of Women
I’d liked to say I learnt my lesson, studied women for a bit, came away with all the answers and implemented them.
But I’m not a liar. The truth is although my dating skills improved and I got some action I then fell in love with another girl and got my ass painfully kicked again. I never even got to kiss this one at all… it’s a long story but let’s just say I felt pretty pathetic by the end of it.
When I’d finally gotten over her I had another chance to implement my dating skills and it turned out I was getting better at this stuff. I learned how to approach woman in bars and was quite successful.
The Success Stories Begin
My favorite “pick up line” became the one finger beckon. I found this completely by accident and was quite surprised as the first woman I ever used it on trotted over. The best part was my ex-girlfriend from before had actually shown up in the same bar that night and chose the moment I was talking to a hot Brazilian girl to walk past.
Seriously… I can’t wait to make a movie about my life one day.
When I used the one finger beckon and they didn’t come I simply walked over to them and in a stern voice said “When I do this, you come here.” This cracked them up and started the conversation. It’s really amazing what you can pull off when you have the confidence to do it.
Where My Life Is Now
Since learning the behaviors that attract women my life has totally changed when it comes to women. From one night stands to hooking up with female friends to relationships with very desirable and attractive women… it’s hard to believe I was once shy and incompetent when it came to the opposite sex.
One of my favorite stories is meeting one of my past girlfriends. She used to live in New York and was spotted on the street and started a modeling career… not once… but twice. Not to mention she had two masters degrees… beautiful, smart and an amazingly nice human being.
When I met her she ignored the guy sitting next to her that was trying to pick her up and isolated me as soon as she could. Later on I told her it’s a pity we can’t date because she was too tall. She explained that it was just the high heels and she could take them off if I wanted.
That night she took me back to her place and we spent the next 7 nights together… not bad for a guy who used to suck with women.
It’s Not About Bragging
Sure… I’m proud of my stories but that’s not why I’m sharing them with you. I’m sharing them with you to show how you can have this kind of success with women. If I can learn how to do it then so can you.
So I invite you to enjoy the website, check out my free report and get on the email list. I have a lot to share with you and I look forward to hearing your success stories.