Knowing how to attract women is simple… it’s putting it all into practice that gets difficult. Over time as you learn more about dating and how a woman’s mind works it’ll get easier. Eventually you should naturally be attracting women just because of your personality.
Before we think about attracting women we need to think about what we’re looking for. What are you actually looking for in a woman? Your list might look something like…
- Beautiful
- Intelligent
- Fun
- Caring
- Good in bed
- Etc
It’s a good start to know what you’re actually looking for as you’ll be much more likely to find it that way. However I use this to illustrate a point. If you have a list of what you want in a woman than that woman probably has a list about what she wants in you.
The good news is that the list of what she says she wants and what she actually wants are too different things. As I talked about in the post how to be attractive to women their subconscious list looks something like this…
- Confidence
- Security
- Independence
- Dominance
- Decisive
- Aggressive
- Unpredictable
- Challenging
So if you want to attract women you need to ask yourself how you display these qualities to her. A lot of this communication will be at the subconscious level and will be about how you act and interact with her. This is why it’s so important to master your inner game when it comes to women.
Even if you use a great “pick up line” that works for thousands of guys it can still not work. It’s all about how you deliver it rather than what you actually say. That’s why I’ve been able to meet women by simply giving them a come-hither finger beckon.
How to demonstrate higher value to attract women
The next thing you need to think about is demonstrating high value to the woman. This is where you show her through actions and stories that you are actually better than her (for lack of better phrasing) and she should be picking you up. Demonstrating higher value is where you really get results.
But this isn’t in a bragging fashion or a “So did I mention I’m a millionaire?” type way. Then it would be called “telling her you have higher value.” No this is much more subtle because you’re demonstrating your value through the stories you tell and the way you act.
For example I lived in Spain for just under 2 years which is pretty damn cool and shows that I like to travel, take risks etc. But I don’t say “So I lived in Spain… isn’t that cool?” Instead I slip it into the conversation by saying something like “When I was living in Spain my friends and I did this epic road trip over to Portugal” and then continue with a funny story about how our car broke down halfway.
Believing in yourself will attract women… remember you have value to offer
There are lots of things that demonstrate higher value to a woman and it’s just a matter of identifying your stories. We’ve all done cool stuff in our lives… sometimes what just seems normal to you is amazing to other people. If you don’t feel you’ve done anything worth talking about it’s time to get out and start living your life.
Some don’t even require stories like if you’re funny and are making her laugh that demonstrates high value. If you’re confident or unpredictable these are also high value. It’s just about accentuating the characteristics that woman find attractive and making them a part of your life.
Because at the end of the day this isn’t about pretending that you have higher value than the woman. You actually want it to be true! If you want an incredible, beautiful woman then in order to attract her you need to bring lots of value into her life.
Like I said at the beginning learning how to attract women doesn’t have to be difficult. You just have to understand what women want on a subconscious level and give it to them.
