Through lots of research (also known as rejection) most “seduction gurus” agree on the fundamental principles of what women are looking for in a man on a subconscious level. Because it’s important to note that most women don’t even know they have these desires in their minds. Even if you ask a woman what she wants in a man her answer will usually be a load of crap.
That’s why so many of us get into trouble when we think we can actually have a logical discussion with a woman about what we need to do to make her love us or save our relationship. The truth is if we’re having this discussion we’ve already lost the game. Unless you learn the principles I’m going to talk about.
So what are woman attracted to?
On the surface this short list may seem simple but I assure you it isn’t. But it’s a starting point for making that woman of your dreams fall in love with you.
Woman on a base level are attracted to:
Confidence
Women are completely turned off by guys who aren’t confident… and they can smell the fear in you. So you have to do more than just “fake it until you make it.”
Security
Women want a man who can protect them. This can manifest itself in many ways from beating other cavemen off with a club to having financial security or just making her feel safe.
Independence
Women want independence in a man. They want him to walk to the beat of his own drum and not just try to make them and others happy all the time.
Dominance
Women want the alpha male… the leader of the pack. This can again by physical dominance or even more popular in modern society is social dominance.
Decisive
You’ll drive a woman nuts if you appear to need her approval for every little decision. A woman wants to be taken care of and will thank her lucky stars if you don’t need to run every little decision by her.
Aggressive
Not aggressive in the sense of getting into fights but aggressive in the sense of a man going after want he wants. Being unafraid to follow your dreams and live the life that you want.
Unpredictable
Women love drama… that’s why soap operas are so popular. And they also love unpredictable men who will always keep them on their toes.
Challenging
Women enjoy a man who challenges them. This ties some of the other concepts together where she doesn’t want a little lapdog that will follow her every command. She wants a man who will keep her on her toes.
So now ask yourself how you rate in these areas and where you can improve. And also thank your lucky stars that we are not judged so much by looks as women are. With a little work you can embody the traits mentioned above and have women queued up around the block if you desire.
