Lots of guys want to know how to meet women. For me I don’t think that’s the biggest problem when it comes to dating. Women are everywhere and all you need to do is go to your local shopping mall to meet a ton of women.
I believe the real problem is guys need to know how to approach women. When you learn this you’ll have no problem meeting women. You’ve just got to develop the skills (and the nerve) to walk up to a woman you don’t know and start a conversation.
But since we’re here let’s go over some things when it comes to meeting women. Now we know it’s easy to meet lots of women the question becomes how do you meet the right women for you? How do meet the woman that you personally find worth hanging around and dating?
The first part of this is knowing what you want in a woman. You’ll want to right down a list of all the characteristics you want in a woman. What kind of personality traits does your ideal woman have?
Next you want to narrow down this list to work out what’s really important to you. For example will you happily date any beautiful model you meet no matter what her personality is like? You’ll notice here we are talking about you selecting the women you want to date… not the other way around.
This is an important mindset shift that you have to embrace to maximize your success with women.
You’ll also want to make a list of interests for your new Miss Right. For example I enjoy dancing so really I want a woman who enjoys dancing too. I also like to learn and develop myself and this is also a must in anyone I want to seriously date.
After all this you should a good idea of the woman you want to find. So now it’s just a matter of going through your list and working out where you’ll meet your ideal woman. For example if you want a woman who enjoys reading and watching movies on the couch you may not find her in a bar at 3am in the morning.
That being said right now you don’t need to focus too much on Miss Right. The honest truth is that even if you meet the perfect woman tomorrow you probably don’t have the skills to keep her. If you do then you probably haven’t set your sights high enough.
Your focus at the moment should just be learning how to create attraction in women in general. Every woman you meet doesn’t have to be a “10” and you should probably work your way up to this anyway so you build confidence along the way. All you have to do is practice what you’re learning and see what happens.
When you do this you’ll find a whole new world of possibilities opens up to you. Once you realize from your own personal experience just what being successful with women feels like your entire perspective on the world changes. Your objective is to get to the point where you can easily create attraction in any woman you desire and then you can go back to your list of the ideal woman.
The important thing is this should be a fun process. You’ll learn a ton, get shot down and have some great successes as well. The key is to focus on the positives, learn from the negatives and just keep moving forward.
Believe me it’s totally worth the commitment of learning how to meet women worth dating.
